Additional Information for Chapter 11, pages 169-175 Early in Chapter 11 of The Compatibility Code the issue of Red Flags is introduced. We identify three different types of red flags. Sometimes red flags are due to a mismatch of personal characteristics or personal qualities. Sometimes red flags are due personal defects—issues discussed in Chapter 4 (dealing with emotional germs) and Chapter 5Read more
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Additional Information for Chapter 11, page 175 Expectations are referred to only fleetingly in The Compatibility Code; however, few issues sound the death knell of a marriage more certainly than unfulfilled expectations. One of the complaints heard most frequently by marriage counselors is, “my needs are not being met.”The oft-heard lament is typically translated “what I expectedRead more
Additional Information for Chapter 11, pages 182-185 Here we consider risk factors (or red flags) that contrast with mismatches or personal-defect red flags. These are typically situational issues, which are not intrinsic to either partner. Three of these issues are discussed in some detail in The Compatibility Code: one or both partners coming from a brokenRead more
Download this file (PDF, 136 KB) Chapter 11 Resources Prescripts for Relationship Health Mismatches that Create Red Flags Expectations Risk Factors from External Circumstances Tools and Worksheets List of Red Flags for Her & Him from pages 177 & 188(PDF, 136 KB) Assessment of Red Flags from pages 147 & 189(PDF, 137 KB) Red FlagsRead more
Download this file (PDF, 137 KB) Chapter 11 Resources Prescripts for Relationship Health Mismatches that Create Red Flags Expectations Risk Factors from External Circumstances Tools and Worksheets List of Red Flags for Her & Him from pages 177 & 188(PDF, 136 KB) Assessment of Red Flags from pages 147 & 189(PDF, 137 KB) Red FlagsRead more
Download This File (PDF, 127 KB) Chapter 11 Resources Prescripts for Relationship Health Mismatches that Create Red Flags Expectations Risk Factors from External Circumstances Tools and Worksheets List of Red Flags for Her & Him from pages 177 & 188(PDF, 136 KB) Assessment of Red Flags from pages 147 & 189(PDF, 137 KB) Red FlagsRead more
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