It’s Time to Take the Guesswork Out of Compatibility
The Compatibility Code
By: Elizabeth E. George, M.A. and Darren M. George, Ph.D.
With divorce rates for first and second marriages well over 50%, something is clearly missing in our approach to a lasting relationship. Millions of otherwise intelligent, well-adjusted women fall in love and marry men with whom they are truly incompatible. The Compatibility Code changes all that.
You’ll discover how to:
- De-bunk the myth of Prince Charming to find Mr. Right
- Take the three most critical steps to pre-qualify your guy and pre-fix a lasting marriage
- Recognize disqualifiers before you become involved
- Negotiate your differences while savoring your similarities
- Write your own “forever” ending—then live it!
Authors Elizabeth and Darren George, having each been part of the grim divorce statistics, set out to research the problem and find a way to reduce the risk and improve the chances of success in marriage.
What they learned will surprise, if not shock, you into a new understanding of the role of love, romance, sex, communication, and more. This easy-to-follow partner selection code gives you the freedom and confidence to fall in love.
What People Are Saying
Myth-shattering and profoundly important! This book will completely re-write the script of how we meet and mate in North America.
Jill Lublin, International Speaker, Best-Selling Author
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My philosophy is based on a holistic family law model, where clients are offered the right kind of supports from a team of professionals whose goal is to assist individuals and families as they transition through the grieving and fear associated with divorce, and ultimately to provide them with the tools to improve their chances of having a happy and fulfilling future. In health, we call it ‘preventive medicine’.
My clients receive a copy of Elizabeth and Darren George’s book, The Compatibility Code as a gift. I’ve been told and witnessed the changes in my clients, both men and women, as they gain an understanding of themselves and their past relationships, and build confidence in themselves to try again.One of my clients was deeply wounded by his wife’s affair. As he read through The Compatibility Code, he would share how the book was helping him understand why he was attracted to certain women, and that he was starting to understand that perhaps in the past he hadn’t always chosen wisely. He is now in counseling, and we are proceeding through the divorce process without his fear turning into anger and protracted litigation.
On occasion, I’ve given a copy of The Compatibility Code to older widows and widowers who are ‘scared’ to start dating again and recently received a lovely photo of a widower and his new wife. We are all ‘scared’ of getting hurt – The Compatibility Code is well-researched and really is a shopping list for getting on with life and finding the right person to share your life with. If you haven’t read it, then I encourage you to. I promise you will learn something about yourself in the process.
The wisdom in this book is what you would hope to hear while talking with your girlfriends—only better! It contains research-based, practical solutions that help guide you to make intelligent, informed choices toward the quest of happiness with a guy that’s truly right for you.
Bonita Campbell, Newlywed, Administrative Assistant
Canadian University College
I believe in miracles and your book is exactly the miracle I need in my life right now! My ex-husband (of 27 years) and I reconnected almost three months ago. Though the physical distance between us is great, the emails, long telephone calls, and frequent visits are helping us come to understand and know each other like never before. Your book is helping me take an intellectual and logical approach to evaluating the appropriateness of recommitting ourselves to each other. I am taking my copy with me the next time we meet. The piece on knowing whether the essence of each other is a match is just one of the profound components of the book. As a matter of fact, I see no reason why people who have been married for decades would not benefit from The Compatibility Code! Thank you for the bottom of my heart!
Alice Wheaton, Author of Several Books
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Even though The Compatibility Code is a primarily a book for women who aren’t yet married, I can tell you with certainty that this book saved my marriage! I married my husband when I was 37 years old, and while I got lucky and found someone that I’m compatible with according to ‘the code,’ we were continually banging our heads up against one seemingly unsolvable problem. Not only did I find out what was at the root of that problem, but my husband and I are better able to handle it and many of the other little challenges to our otherwise harmonious marriage. Thank you Elizabeth and Darren for taking such care in creating The Compatibility Code. I hope other married couples find it as useful as we have!
Patricia Springsteel, Small Business Owner
My wife has noted on a number of occasions that there is a terrible shortage of common sense in our present culture. Elizabeth and Darren masterfully teach us how to apply common sense rooted in solid research to the awesome task of choosing a mate. They dismantle the cultural models of mate selection and then construct a model that can successfully enable one to “prefix” a relationship and avoid becoming one of the 70% failure statistics for second marriages. I have spent my career preparing people for marriage and retrofitting troubled marriages. Those who will do the work of following this model will avoid the therapeutic treadmill so common today. While the Christian counselor will want to root these concepts in a biblical frame of reference, the general public will find the social research commanding.
Howard Eyrich, D. Min., Seminary Professor, Biblical Counselor, Author
Three to Get Ready: A Premarital Counseling Manual
I always had the qualities that I desired in a man in the back of my mind. However, what I idealized and the type of man I was actually attracted to were quite different. Yes, I was a bad boy magnet—and didn’t know how to change—until I was introduced to this book. It has completely reshaped my thinking: I experienced a paradigm shift in what I found attractive in a man. The type of man that I idealized is now the type of man that I am attracted to thanks to Elizabeth and Darren.
Tricia Cooper, Assistant Librarian
Mary C. Moore Public Library
What’s love got to do with it? Not much, it turns out, until you read and apply the practical truths in this landmark book. Then go head first, and your heart will follow!
Jeff Mowatt, Best-Selling Author
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The Compatibility Code: An Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Dating and Marriage
216-Page Hardcover, 236-Page Soft Cover or 236-Page eBook